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What dreams tell us?

Dreams have fascinated humankind since the beginning of recorded history. Ancient civilizations saw dreams as portals for receiving wisdom from the gods. In some cultures, dreams were—and still are—used for healing, or as part of rituals. The interpretation of dreams is a key to unlocking information about the dreamer’s life, relationships, desires and more.

Why do we dream?

While the exact purpose of dreaming is still unknown, some theories suggest dreams play a role in memory consolidation and emotional processing. When we sleep, our brains are still active, going through the day’s events and filing away important memories. Dreams may be a byproduct of this overnight memory organization. Another theory is that dreams allow us to process our emotions and stressors from waking life. The random nature of dreams may reveal connections we miss in our conscious state.

Stages of sleep when dreaming occurs

Dreams mainly happen during rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. Our eyes move quickly side to side behind closed eyelids as we dream. REM sleep usually occurs 90 minutes after falling asleep and the first period of REM typically lasts 10 minutes. With each sleep cycle, REM time increases, with the final one lasting an hour. Most vivid dreams occur during the last REM phase before waking. Non-REM sleep includes three stages: light sleep leading into deeper slow-wave sleep. While dreaming also happens in non-REM sleep, the dreams tend to be less vivid and detailed.

Common dream themes and theories

Some common dream themes include:

  • Falling
  • Being chased
  • Flying
  • Missing an exam or class
  • Being unable to run or move
  • Being late
  • Dying
  • Being naked in public
  • Losing teeth
  • Being unable to find a bathroom

Psychoanalysts see some of these themes as reflecting unfulfilled wishes or anxiety. For example, dreams about death could represent the symbolic death of something in your life you need to let go of. Many believe dreams of being chased reflect an issue you are avoiding. Dreams may use familiar settings from your daily life or incorporate elements into surreal or fantastical narratives. The emotional context—whether dreams feel scary, fun, adventurous or frustrating—provides clues to interpreting their meaning.

How dreams reflect your waking life

Dreaming allows the unconscious mind to reveal itself. Dreams will often reference recent waking experiences and things that are occupying your mind or causing stress. Your relationships, work, desires, fears and even movies or books you’ve been exposed to can inspire dream content. Dreams may exaggerate or distort situations or represent them through symbols. For example, a dream about a raging fire could represent an anger issue in a relationship. Dreams can reflect aspects of your personality you keep hidden during the day.

Why you forget dreams

Dreams fade quickly after waking due to the change in brain chemistry between sleep and wakefulness. Unless you wake during or immediately after dreaming, the content rapidly dissipates because short-term memory can only store it for so long. On average, we forget 95 to 99% of our dreams. People usually remember the dreams just before waking more vividly, as the final REM stage is when our most lifelike and complex dreams occur.

Improving dream recall

If you want to remember more dreams, try these tips:

  • Wake up without an alarm
  • Stay still immediately after waking and focus on your dream
  • Run the dream through your mind to etch it into long-term memory
  • Jot down notes about any details you recall
  • Record your voice describing the dream
  • Tell someone about the dream
  • Think about dreams during the day to prime yourself to remember at night

Lucid dreaming

In lucid dreams, you know you are dreaming and can control dream events. Lucid dreaming indicates a higher level of self-awareness during the REM state. Methods to induce lucid dreams include:

  • Reality testing – Interact with your environment during the day to see if you are dreaming
  • Wake back to bed – Wake yourself up after a few hours, stay awake briefly, then go back to sleep
  • Mnemonic induction – While falling asleep, visualize yourself becoming lucid in a dream
  • MILD (Mnemonics Induction of Lucid Dreaming) – Repeat an intention to remember you are dreaming, then visualize yourself in a dream becoming lucid

Interpreting the meaning of dreams

Dream analysis looks at dreams from a psychological perspective to decipher insights about your unconscious thoughts, emotions, desires, fears and more. Some approaches to interpret meaning include:

  • Psychoanalysis – how dream symbols represent unconscious wishes, early childhood memories or thoughts you repress
  • Jungian – archetypes reflecting shared experiences of humanity that reside in your collective unconscious
  • Gestalt – dreams represent different aspects of your personality and issues you need to confront
  • Cognitive – how dreams reflect thinking patterns that may be dysfunctional in your waking life
  • Neurocognitive – dreams help strengthen neural connections and integrate new information into memory networks

You can analyze your dreams on your own or work with a therapist. Keep a dream journal, notice patterns over time and pay attention to feelings. Recurring elements, such as characters, settings or items, often have symbolic meaning. Think about how dream elements relate to situations in your waking life and where there may be disconnect between your conscious and unconscious self.

Common meanings of dream symbols

Here are some examples of what common dream symbols could represent:

Dream Symbol Possible Interpretation
Being chased Avoiding a problem or issue
Flying A desire for freedom or escape
Being naked Feeling exposed or vulnerable
Missing teeth Anxiety about appearance or loss
Test taking Self-doubt, skills evaluation
Running, but unable to move Feeling helpless

Of course, dream interpretation is subjective. The context of the dream matters most. Journaling about dreams over time can uncover your personal dream vocabulary.

How dreams relate to mental health

Dreams can interact with our mental health in various ways. For people with anxiety, dreams often mirror waking worries and amplify distressing content. Those with depression may have more negative dream emotions compared to non-depressed people. Dreams can process emotions, working through grief for example. Recurrent nightmares could point to trauma or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Mental health professionals sometimes use dreams to aid diagnosis and incorporate dreamwork into treatment. Therapies that work with dreaming include psychodynamic approaches, Jungian analysis and gestalt therapy. Lucid dreaming may help treat nightmares related to PTSD. Confronting symbols of what you fear in a lucid dream state can take away some of their impact.

How dreaming changes across the lifespan

Studies find dream experiences shift from childhood to adolescence to adulthood to elderly age. Some key differences include:

  • Children – more frequent dreaming, with simpler content based in concrete experiences
  • Adolescents – dreams increase in complexity, with more characters, settings and emotions
  • Adults – longer, more immersive dreams with coherent narratives and overlaying abstractions
  • Elderly – dreams tend to decrease, becoming less intense with more fragmented content

As we age, dream themes seem to reflect developmental life stages we navigate. For teens, dreams often involve themes of independence and sexuality. Adults dream more about work, relationships, parenting, and creativity compared to younger populations.

Cultural interpretations of dreams

Dream interpretation varies across cultures and religious traditions. Some examples include:

  • Ancient Egypt – dreams allowed contact with gods
  • Ancient Greece – dreams sent messages and prophecies from the gods
  • Judaism and Islam – some dreams are divine revelations
  • Hinduism – seeing deceased relatives or gods could be auspicious
  • Buddhism – dreams result from good or bad daily thoughts and actions
  • Native American – dreams connect with ancestral spirits and nature
  • Chinese – nightmares result from emotional imbalance

While cultures offer unique lenses to examine dreaming, common themes emerge. Dreams often reflect universal desires, fears, struggles and aspirations that make us human.

Famous dreams in history and legends

Dreams have inspired ideas, insights and inventions throughout history. Here are some legendary tales of dreams:

  • Abraham Lincoln dreamed of his assassination days before he died.
  • The structure of the periodic table came to chemist Dmitri Mendeleev in a dream.
  • Mary Shelley conceived the idea for her novel “Frankenstein” from a nightmare.
  • Martin Luther King Jr.’s “I Have a Dream” speech was inspired partially by a dream.
  • Legend says some Native American chiefs received instructions for ceremonies and rituals in dreams.
  • The sewing machine needle came to Elias Howe in a dream after he struggled to invent it.
  • Paul McCartney famously heard music in a dream that became the hit song “Yesterday.”

Even if some mythical elements surround these dream stories, it speaks to the powerful and mysterious nature of our dreaming lives.

How technology is revolutionizing dream research

Advances in technology enable scientists to study dreams like never before. Methods include:

  • EEG (electroencephalography) – Records electrical activity of the brain during sleep to map brain waves in REM vs non-REM sleep
  • fMRI (functional magnetic resonance imaging) – Measures brain activity during different stages of sleep
  • TNGS (Targeted Neural Dream Stimulation) – Can alter dream content by applying electrical currents to areas of the sleeping brain

Digital dream labs allow recording and mapping of dream content. Machine learning analyzes large amounts of data about dreaming. Apps, wearable devices and other tools improve dream recall and recording. These techniques open new frontiers in understanding the secrets of our dream world.


Dreaming allows us to journey within our minds while our bodies rest. Research continues illuminating why and how we dream. By exploring our inner worlds each night, we learn more about who we are, gain insight and creativity, and strengthen neural connections. Paying attention to dreams can enhance self-awareness, uncover hidden emotions, work through fears, spark inspiration and improve mental health. The messages dreams whisper to us each night can guide us on our life path if we choose to listen.