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What to Do When Your ADHD is acting up?

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a common neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. It affects people of all ages, but symptoms often start in childhood. ADHD can significantly impact daily functioning and quality of life if not properly managed.

What are the common symptoms of ADHD?

There are three main types of ADHD symptoms:

  • Inattention – difficulty staying focused, paying attention, organizing tasks, forgetfulness
  • Hyperactivity – excessive movement, fidgeting, restlessness
  • Impulsivity – hasty actions without thought of consequences, impatience, intrusiveness

Some common symptoms of inattention include:

  • Difficulty paying attention and staying focused during tasks or play
  • Appearing forgetful or losing things
  • Getting easily distracted
  • Having difficulty following instructions
  • Struggling to complete tasks and stay organized

Some common symptoms of hyperactivity include:

  • Fidgeting and squirming
  • Non-stop talking
  • Difficulty sitting still and staying seated
  • Running or climbing at inappropriate times
  • Having trouble playing quietly

Some common symptoms of impulsivity include:

  • Impatience
  • Difficulty taking turns
  • Frequently interrupting others
  • Blurting out comments
  • Rushing through tasks without reading instructions

When do ADHD symptoms get worse?

ADHD symptoms can fluctuate and sometimes worsen in certain situations, including:

  • High stress environments – symptoms may increase when feeling overwhelmed or facing a challenge.
  • Boring or repetitive tasks – symptoms may spike when uninterested in an activity.
  • Transitions between activities – moving from one task to another can be difficult.
  • Low structure or lack of routine – an inconsistent schedule can exacerbate symptoms.
  • Fatigue, hunger, other medical issues – when basic needs aren’t met, focus decreases.

You may notice peaks and valleys in your ADHD symptoms throughout the day or week depending on what is going on and how well you are managing your symptoms in the moment.

What can you do when ADHD symptoms flare up?

There are many strategies and lifestyle changes that can help when your ADHD symptoms start to interfere with your day:

Take a brain break

If you notice your symptoms spiking, take a 5-10 minute break to reset your brain. Get up and move around, get a drink of water, listen to music, or do some deep breathing. Then return to the task with fresh eyes.

Identify triggers

Reflect on what specifically triggered your symptoms to worsen. Was it hunger? Stress? Boredom? Noise? Identifying triggers can help you anticipate and manage them better.

Use a fidget tool

Fidget toys like stress balls, fidget spinners, or modeling clay can help channel restless energy and improve concentration.

Listen to music

Playing calming or upbeat music in the background may help stimulate and engage your brain during boring or repetitive tasks.

Get organized

Use planners, calendars, to-do lists, and reminders to stay on top of your schedule and tasks. Organization can help provide much-needed structure.

Minimize distractions

Work in a quiet, distraction-free zone when possible, away from TV, social media, and other stimulants vying for your attention.

Take a walk

A short walk gives your brain a boost of fresh air and exercise, stimulating you while allowing hyperactive energy an outlet.

Chew gum

Chewing gum can help channel excess energy and improve focus during tasks requiring concentration.

Talk it out

Verbally explain what you are doing as you work through challenging tasks requiring focus. Hearing the steps and instructions often helps.

Set a timer

Time yourself working in short bursts with scheduled breaks. Knowing a break is coming can help you power through when you are tempted to quit.

Adjust your environment

Work in a space with natural lighting if possible. Declutter your work area. Play soft music or white noise. Creating a sensory-friendly environment can really help.

Take a power nap

A short 10-30 minute power nap may boost mental clarity and alertness when symptoms spike in the afternoon.

Do a brain exercise

Try brain games, logic puzzles, or math problems to stimulate your brain and improve focus when needed.

What lifestyle changes help manage ADHD?

Making certain lifestyle adjustments can really help minimize daily ADHD symptoms:

  • Get enough sleep – aim for 8-10 hours per night.
  • Eat a healthy diet – choose foods high in protein, fiber, and omega-3s.
  • Exercise daily – even light exercise benefits mental health.
  • Practice relaxation techniques – try yoga, meditation, deep breathing.
  • Set a consistent routine – follow set schedules and bedtime habits.
  • Organize your space – declutter and keep items in assigned places.
  • Make lists and use reminders – post notes and set phone alarms.
  • Take breaks often – schedule short breaks to recharge.
  • Limit distractions – minimize clutter, noise, and multitasking.

When should you seek extra help for ADHD?

If your symptoms become extremely difficult to manage and continue interfering with work, school, relationships, or other aspects of life even with lifestyle adjustments, talk to your doctor. You may need to adjust your ADHD medications or treatment plan.

Signs that your ADHD may need more professional attention include:

  • Symptoms worsening and lasting longer than typical peaks
  • Struggling at work or school despite your best efforts
  • Frequent forgetfulness, careless mistakes, missed deadlines
  • Difficulties maintaining friendships and relationships
  • Increased restlessness, anxiety, irritability
  • Trouble controlling anger, frustration, or impulses
  • Depression, loss of self-esteem
  • Turning to unhealthy habits as a coping mechanism

Seeking counseling, joining an ADHD support group, or meeting with an ADHD coach may also help provide extra support and teach coping strategies.

Conclusion

When ADHD symptoms flare up and start interfering with your day, don’t panic. Try taking a brain break, identifying triggers, minimizing distractions, getting organized, and using other coping skills. Maintain an ADHD-friendly lifestyle with healthy habits. Reach out for extra support if symptoms become unmanageable. With the right management techniques, you can get through the ups and downs of ADHD.