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What yelling does to a child’s brain?

Yelling can have profound effects on a child’s developing brain. When a parent or caregiver repeatedly yells at a child, it can increase stress hormones and negatively impact the structure and functioning of a child’s brain. Yelling threatens a child’s sense of safety and security which is vital for healthy social, emotional and cognitive development.

While an occasional raised voice is normal, chronic yelling can alter brain structure and function. Exposure to verbal aggression thickens the cortex of the brain, enlarging the amygdala which governs fear and emotion. This impairs a child’s ability to learn and increases anxiety, depression and aggression. Yelling also weakens connections between neurons in the prefrontal cortex which affects focus, reasoning and awareness.

What happens in the brain when we yell?

When someone yells, the amygdala activates the brain’s fight or flight response. The hypothalamus triggers a flood of stress hormones including cortisol and adrenaline. These prepare the body to face a threat. Hearing yelling voices causes an instant stress reaction:

  • Heart rate, blood pressure and respiration increase
  • Muscles tense
  • Blood flow diverts from the brain’s thinking center to large muscles
  • Digestion slows
  • Immune response is suppressed
  • Blood sugar levels rise to provide quick energy

This primes the body to react with anger, flee the situation or freeze in fear. When yelling is chronic, stress hormone levels remain constantly elevated. This alters the architecture of a child’s developing brain.

How yelling impacts brain structure

Repeated yelling makes structural changes to the brain by:

  • Increasing size and reactivity of amygdala
  • Weakening connections between neurons in the prefrontal cortex
  • Slowing development of hippocampus
  • Reducing size of corpus callosum
  • Inhibiting neurogenesis and limiting neural plasticity


The amygdala is enlarged and overreactive when children face verbal aggression. This region detects and responds to threats. Enlargement results in heightened emotional reactions including anger, anxiety and aggression. Children may exhibit temper tantrums, lash out violently or withdraw. The amygdala stays hyperactivated even after yelling stops.

Prefrontal cortex

This region governs planning, awareness and impulse control. Yelling weakens connectivity between neurons here, reducing emotional regulation. Children have trouble calming down and thinking rationally after yelling episodes. Weakened impulse control leads to risky behaviors.


The hippocampus manages memory formation and contextual learning. Chronic stress from yelling inhibits growth of this area. Children have difficulty with learning, memory and perceiving context. This hampers academic performance and social interaction.

Corpus callosum

This bundle of nerve fibers connects the brain’s right and left hemispheres allowing communication between the two sides. Verbal aggression leads to thinning of the corpus callosum. This reduces children’s ability to process information and coordinate left-right brain activity.


Yelling limits neurogenesis – the formation of new neurons in the hippocampus. Chronic stress elevates cortisol which inhibits neuron growth. With impaired neurogenesis, children lack the new brain cells needed for learning, memory and mood regulation.

Neural plasticity

Children’s brains require plasticity – the ability to change and adapt neural pathways throughout life. Yelling creates a brain primed for fear and survival mode which restricts neural flexibility. With limited plasticity, children are unable to develop healthy coping mechanisms.

How does yelling impact brain function?

Structural changes to the brain after yelling alter critical functions including:

  • Reasoning, planning and awareness
  • Impulse and emotional control
  • Learning and memory
  • Perceiving social cues and context
  • Language processing
  • Decision making
  • Focus and attention
  • Self-esteem and mood

Reasoning and impulse control

Yelling impairs activity in the prefrontal cortex which governs reasoning, judgement and impulse control. Children are more reactive and aggressive after yelling. They cannot calm themselves or consider consequences before acting.

Learning and memory

Reduced hippocampus development due to yelling makes learning and memory more difficult for children. Information processing and contextual understanding is impaired. Children also have a hard time recalling details like homework assignments.

Social perception

With an enlarged amygdala, children have trouble reading social cues like facial expressions. They may perceive hostility where none exists. Social anxiety is common. Yelling also weakens a child’s understanding of cultural norms for discipline.


The left side of the brain manages language processing which enables communication. Yelling can delay language development in young children. Older kids may stutter or have trouble finding words. Social language skills are also hampered.

Attention and focus

Yelling damages parts of the brain that govern attention span and concentration. Children have difficulty staying on task at home or school after yelling episodes. Their attention is hyperfocused on threats in their environment.

Decision making

Verbal aggression impairs connections between the amygdala and prefrontal cortex which regulates complex thinking and decision making. Children are more likely to make poor choices about behavior and relationships.


The enlarged amygdala and limited prefrontal control resulting from yelling leads to higher rates of anxiety, depression and anger issues in children. They are more emotionally volatile and have lower self-esteem.

How is brain development impacted?

Exposure to yelling during critical periods of growth can derail the entire course of brain maturation. Sensitive windows for cognitive, social and emotional development are disrupted.

Infancy (0 – 2 years)

Yelling triggers extreme distress in infants who are unable to comprehend or cope with verbal aggression. Early trauma shapes the hyperreactive amygdala and weakens neural connections that allow babies to regulate emotions. Communication, bonding and exploration are impaired.

Preschool (3-5 years)

At this age, yelling causes kids to feel threatened, helpless and guilty. Rather than learning through exploration, they avoid taking chances. Verbal aggression makes it harder for young kids to trust and attach to others. Social and cognitive skills do not strengthen properly.

Middle childhood (6-10 years)

Once kids reach school-age, yelling leads to academic struggles and clashes with peers and authority figures. Children have difficulty focusing, lack problem-solving abilities and perform poorly in school. Social development lags.

Adolescence (11-18 years)

The complex changes of puberty are influenced by childhood stress. Teens exposed to chronic yelling are overly emotional, impulsive and reactive. They misread social cues and struggle to self-regulate. Anxiety, depression and unhealthy risk-taking often occur.

Lasting impacts on mental health

The changes to brain structure and function caused by yelling can leave lifelong impacts on a child’s mental health and behavior. The chronic stress of verbal abuse leads to:

  • Depression – 2-3 times higher risk
  • Anxiety disorders
  • Post-traumatic stress
  • Attachment disorders
  • Substance abuse
  • Self harm
  • Aggression and conduct disorders
  • ADHD
  • Poor academic achievement
  • Low self-esteem and self-worth

The earlier and more severe the yelling, the worse the outcomes typically are. However, children’s brains also display remarkable resilience when nurtured in a safe, loving environment.

Does yelling affect boys and girls differently?

Yelling impacts all children’s brains in negative ways. However, some research suggests it may affect boys and girls somewhat differently, especially in regards to mental health risks.

Effects on boys

Some studies indicate boys are more susceptible to aggression and behavioral issues when raised by verbally aggressive parents. Impaired emotional control in boys may present as hostility, disobedience and bullying.

Age Effects in boys
Preschool years – Aggression toward peers
Elementary school – Classroom behavior issues
Middle and high school – Violent behavior and delinquency

Effects on girls

Girls appear more likely to internalize yelling as depression and anxiety. Impacts may include:

Age Effects in girls
Childhood – Emotional problems
Adolescence – Low self-esteem
Young adulthood – Anxiety disorders and depression

However, both genders are at risk for similar neurological and psychological damage. Girls can still develop conduct problems while boys may become depressed or anxious.

Can yelling alter DNA and stress response?

Emerging research indicates verbal aggression alters how genes are expressed and leaves biochemical changes that get passed to future generations.

Epigenetic changes

Yelling may cause epigenetic alterations – chemical modifications to DNA that toggle genes on and off. These are linked to impaired cognition and mental illness. Harsh parenting induces epigenetic changes correlated with problem behaviors. Marks from childhood trauma can endure into adulthood.

Cortisol response

Yelling elevates cortisol which helps activate genes that regulate the stress response. Eventually, chronic yelling causes genes to become overexpressed, leading to permanent changes in the cortisol system. These kids exhibit sustained high stress levels. Their altered cortisol response gets passed down through generations.

Intergenerational effects

Studies reveal parents who yell produce lasting physiological changes in kids which impair stress hormone functioning. These biological markers are observable even decades later. When these children have their own kids, the traits for dysfunctional stress reactions get inherited.

Does neglect affect the brain like yelling?

Both yelling and neglect harm a child’s brain development. However, they impact different regions and functions.

Impacts of neglect

Neglect starves the brain rather than overstimulating it. Underused neural pathways may be pruned away. Effects include:

  • Stunted prefrontal cortex development
  • Weak connections between left and right brain hemispheres
  • Shrunken hippocampus, cerebellum and corpus callosum
  • Impaired cognition and executive function
  • Language, memory and attention deficits
  • Poor emotional control
  • Lack of empathy

Comparison of impacts

Brain region Effect of yelling Effect of neglect
Prefrontal cortex Weak connections Immature development
Amygdala Enlarged No change
Hippocampus Impaired neurogenesis Shrunken size
Corpus callosum Thinning Shrunken size

Both yelling and neglect can severely disrupt child development and lead to long-term mental health issues.

Can kids recover from yelling?

YES! While yelling can have profound neurological and psychological effects, children’s brains also have a great capacity to heal and rewire when the mistreatment stops.

With nurturing, stability and professional help, children can develop new neural pathways to:

  • Regulate emotions
  • Control impulses
  • Build self-esteem
  • Improve social skills
  • Enhance cognition

The sooner yelling is addressed, the better the outcomes. But even long-term impacts can be reversed. With the plasticity of young brains, amazing transformation is possible.

Strategies to help kids recover

  • Counseling, play therapy or support groups
  • Consistent routines and nurturing parenting
  • Biofeedback, mindfulness or meditation
  • Regular exercise, nutrition and sleep
  • Activities that develop talents and interests
  • Positive social interactions
  • Academic assistance if needed

With dedication from caregivers and professionals, children can heal the effects yelling has on their brains.


Yelling reshapes the architecture and functioning of a child’s developing brain. Sensitive periods of growth are disrupted, leading to lifelong deficits. But committed support and care can help strengthen new neural pathways to reverse damage. While yelling’s impacts are real, they need not be permanent. Children’s resilient brains can regain emotional, social and cognitive abilities with compassion and care.