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What fight mode feels like?

Fight mode is a state of hyperarousal and heightened reactivity experienced when the body perceives a threat. It is characterized by a cascade of physiological, psychological, and behavioral changes aimed at ensuring survival in the face of danger.

What triggers fight mode?

Fight mode can be triggered by both physical and emotional threats. Common triggers include:

  • Being physically attacked
  • Verbal threats or abuse
  • Witnessing violence or aggression
  • Experiencing traumatic events
  • Relationship conflict
  • Workplace challenges or threats
  • Financial stressors

Essentially any situation that is interpreted as threatening by the brain can activate the fight response. It tends to be triggered more easily in people with anxiety disorders, PTSD, or a history of trauma.

Physiological changes

When fight mode is activated, it sets off a cascade of effects across multiple systems in the body:

Cardiovascular system

  • Increased heart rate and blood pressure
  • Rapid breathing
  • Increased blood flow to large muscle groups

Nervous system

  • Release of stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol
  • Suppressed functioning of frontal lobes
  • Increased amygdala activity

Musculoskeletal system

  • Increased muscle tension and readiness
  • Dilated pupils
  • Release of stored glucose for energy

These changes all happen very quickly, priming the body to either fight the threat or flee to safety.

Psychological changes

In addition to physical changes, activation of fight mode induces a number of psychological shifts as well:

  • Heightened threat sensitivity – Hypervigilance for additional threats in the environment.
  • Narrowed focus – Tunnel vision concentrating only on the threat, blocking out other details.
  • Time distortion – Events may seem to move in slow motion or speed up uncontrollably.
  • Diminished higher cognition – Reduced complex thinking and problem solving.
  • Surge of aggression or anger – Fight response primed for defensive attack if needed.
  • Fear – Sensed viscerally or as racing thoughts about vulnerability.

These mental alterations happen due to reduced prefrontal cortex activity and increased amygdala activation, skewing information processing towards threat response.

Common behaviors

When the body and mind enter fight mode, it often translates into certain behavioral reactions:

  • Aggression – Yelling, throwing things, hitting, pushing.
  • Confrontation – Arguing, threatening, intimidation.
  • Hypervigilance – Constant scanning for danger.
  • Pacing – Inability to sit still.
  • Tension – Clenched jaw, furrowed brow.
  • Withdrawal – Silence, refusal to engage.

These actions stem from an urge to directly address the threat or avoid further harm.

What does fight mode feel like?

The lived experience of fight mode can be highly variable but often includes:

Physical sensations

  • Pounding heart
  • Tightness in chest
  • Muscle tension
  • Shakiness
  • Sweating
  • Headache
  • Nausea
  • Fatigue after fight response subsides

Thought patterns

  • Racing, disconnected thoughts
  • Hypervigilance about threats
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Intrusive memories or flashbacks if trauma-related

Emotions

  • Anger
  • Irritability
  • Fear
  • Desperation
  • Agitation
  • Overwhelm

Individuals may only be aware of some of these elements due to the limited self-reflection possible during fight mode. The intensity and combination of symptoms can also vary. But the underlying state is one of a body and mind primed for rapid reaction to remove any threat.

How long does fight mode last?

Fight mode is designed to be a temporary state that allows us to deal with immediate danger. In straightforward threatening situations, it may only last minutes before the parasympathetic nervous system dampens the stress response and returns the body to equilibrium.

However, fight mode can persist for longer durations, especially if:

  • The threat continues or escalates.
  • New threats arise before the nervous system resets.
  • The individual ruminates about the situation.
  • Fight triggering is chronic due to things like trauma or frequent conflict.

Ongoing activation of the fight response without relief can lead to significant physical and mental health effects.

What happens after fight mode?

After fight mode has been activated then subsides, people normally feel:

  • Exhaustion: Fighting or fleeing uses immense energy reserves that lead to fatigue.
  • Soreness: Muscle tension and physical exertion can cause body aches.
  • Mental fog: The mind feels dull due to depletion of cognitive resources.
  • Emotional aftershocks: Lingering fear, anger, sadness or shame are common.

Post-fight mode can also include symptoms like headaches, changes in appetite, insomnia, and gastrointestinal issues. Hormone changes may continue for hours or days until the body regains homeostasis.

Psychologically, individuals may replay the event in their mind or have difficulty concentrating and making decisions. Fight mode’s tunnel vision can fade into awareness of other consequences surrounding the situation.

Overall, recovery after fight mode involves significant physical and emotional recalibration.

What helps deactivate fight mode?

To cut fight mode short or minimize its impact, the following methods may help:

Remove the threat

If possible, physically leave the threatening situation or remove the thing triggering fight response.

Calming techniques

  • Controlled breathing
  • Progressive muscle relaxation
  • Meditation or mindfulness
  • Going outdoors
  • Exercise

These stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system to begin lowering heart rate, blood pressure, and stress hormones.

Social support

Talking through the situation with trusted friends or family engages thinking centers of the brain to process the event and receive comfort.

Self-care

Getting enough sleep, nourishing food, physical activity, and downtime all help recovery.

Counseling

If fight mode is triggered chronically or severely, seeking professional mental health treatment is advisable.

Long-term health impacts

While fight mode is an important survival mechanism, chronic or excessive activation can lead to significant physical and mental health problems over time. Potential long-term effects include:

  • Cardiovascular disease
  • Hypertension
  • Stroke
  • Irritable bowel syndrome
  • Peptic ulcers
  • Chronic pain conditions
  • Diabetes
  • Obesity
  • Depression
  • Anxiety disorders
  • PTSD
  • Substance abuse
  • Sleep disorders

Managing fight mode triggering events and recovery properly helps mitigate these long-term consequences.

When to seek help

Professional medical or mental health assistance may be advisable if you experience:

  • Difficulty recovering from fight mode episodes
  • Fight response triggering daily or almost daily
  • Severe symptoms that continue >1 month after threat is gone
  • Worsening physical or mental health over time
  • Thoughts of harming yourself or others

Seeking help can aid in addressing underlying causes of chronic fight mode activation and developing healthier coping strategies.

Conclusion

Fight mode represents an intricate cascade of physiological, psychological, and behavioral changes oriented towards survival in the face of immediate threat. While an important defense mechanism, excessive or prolonged fight mode activation can negatively impact health and wellbeing. Recognizing your own fight response patterns and intervening with calming techniques, social support, and self-care can help mitigate these effects. Overall, being aware of how fight mode truly feels provides the opportunity to respond skillfully rather than reactively when you perceive danger.